There is not much difference between magnetism and vibration,
but at the same time we use the word vibration for that
which we can feel in some form or other, which we can perceive,
which is more intelligible; whereas we are not always conscious
of magnetism and it is not always intelligible although
it has an effect on us. Sometimes magnetism may work for
a long, long time before we are even conscious of it. Nevertheless,
these are one and the same thing. In the aspect where it
is intelligible we call it vibration because we feel the
movement, whereas in the aspect of magnetism we may not
feel it until its effect manifests to our view.
It is not always that one is attracted or feels repulsion
on meeting a person, though it may happen that one is attracted
or repulsed by merely seeing a person. Attraction or repulsion
is something which takes place in less than a moment. The
finer a man is the more he is awakened to this sense of
attraction or repulsion, and as soon as he casts his glance
over a person he either feels attracted or repelled. The
only difference is that the wise see all and rise above
it, whereas people of little sense react instantly. Nevertheless,
every person gives an impression in an instant which calls
out either attraction or repulsion.
Treating this subject from a physical point of view only,
the first important thing which works automatically on another
person is form and feature. The reason is that every individual
is partly, even if not wholly, responsible for his form
and features. Form and features do not represent only a
family resemblance, but they tell us something about the
person's mentality, his attitude of mind, his outlook on
life, his condition. The first principle, in regard to feature
and form, besides right formation is right proportion. Upon
this depend attraction and repulsion. No doubt everyone
sees it differently, because the sense of proportion is
different in everyone, and therefore the impression is also
different. And when we look at it from the artistic point
of view, we find that there is a sense which is more developed
in some and less in others, a sense which is awakened and
which is touched by line and color.
The next aspect of physical magnetism can be seen in
the regularity of the working of the physical body, in the
rhythm of the heart and the pulse and in the circulation
of the blood; also in the purity of the body, within and
without. This magnetism is sustained by a regular life,
by taking care of one's health and vigor, and by maintaining
a regular rhythm of life. A man, absorbed as he is in his
daily affairs, often neglects his body which is a vehicle
to express the spiritual ideal. His neglect is sometimes
due to his absorption in his daily work, sometimes to thoughtlessness
and sometimes because he does not trouble to think about
it.
Another aspect of physical magnetism can be observed
in the movements. By this is not meant dancing movements,
but movements in ordinary life: walking, sitting, eating,
drinking. Every moment one shows the bent of one's mind
with every turn one takes. We can see from a man's movements
what his weakness is and what his strength. His movements
can tell us of his wretchedness and of his joy. A person
with awkward movements will always have an awkward mentality,
a person with crude movements will naturally be coarse.
This does not mean that one should develop artificial movements
in one's everyday life in order to make one's movements
more beautiful and appealing; that would be still worse.
Nothing that is artificial has any power. That which attracts
is an innocent movement. It manifests naturally. One cannot
help moving in a certain way. Control over one's actions,
over one's movements, gives a person magnetism. And the
one who moves automatically loses that magnetism, whereas
the one who gains control over his movements develops a
power of magnetism which manifests in different forms. Is
it not clear that a person who walks stamping on the floor
with his feet has something hard in his mentality? A person
may show his animal tendencies in the way he eats; also
the way he sits, the way he looks, the way he speaks, and
the way he acts in every capacity of life, are expressive
of the condition of his mind.
Many do not observe all this, and yet they are affected
by it just the same. Either they are attracted to someone
or they are repulsed by him without his having said one
word. Very often a person goes to look for work in an office,
in a shop or elsewhere, and the man who appoints him, before
he asks him any question has gained a first impression of
him without even knowing it himself. And it is this impression
which directs the whole conversation that he has with that
person. He may ask him a hundred questions or only two questions,
but they are dictated by the first impression he received
in one instant. Naturally an ordinary person is not awakened
to the higher aspects of magnetism, but everyone in a greater
or lesser degree possesses a sense to feel and to be affected
by physical magnetism.
checked 03-Sep-2006