i
The will power plays a great part in character-building.
And the will power becomes feeble when a person yields to every
little tendency, inclination, and fancy he has; but when a person
fights against every little fancy and tendency and inclination
he learns to fight with himself, and in that way he develops
will power. When once a person's inclinations, fancies, and
tendencies have grown stronger than his will power, he experiences
in his life several enemies existing in his own self, and he
finds it difficult to combat them. For inclinations, fancies,
and tendencies, when powerful, do not let will power work against
them. If there is any such thing as self-denial, it is this
practice; and by this practice in time one attains to a power
which may be called mastery over oneself.
In small things of everyday life one neglects this consideration
because one thinks, 'These are my tendencies, my
fancies, my inclinations, and by respecting them I respect
myself, by considering them I consider myself.' But one forgets
that what one calls my is not oneself, it is what wills
that is oneself. Therefore in the Christian prayer it is said,
Thy Will be done, which means, Thy Will when it works through
me; in other words, my will which is Thy Will, be done. It is
this illusion of confusing one's possession with oneself that
creates all illusion and keeps man from self-realization.
Life is a continual battle. Man struggles with things that
are outside him, and so he gives a chance to the foes who exist
in his own being. Therefore the first thing necessary in life
is to make peace for the time being with the outside world,
in order to prepare for the war which is to be fought within
oneself. Once peace is made within, one will gain by that sufficient
strength and power to be used through the struggle of life within
and without. Self-pity is the worst poverty. When a person says,
'I am...' with pity, before he has said anything more he has
diminished himself to half of what he is; and what is said further,
diminishes him totally; nothing more of him is left afterwards.
There is so much in the world that we can pity and which it
would be right for us to take pity upon, but if we have no time
free from our own self we cannot give our mind to others in
the world. Life is one long journey, and the further behind
we have left our self, the further we have progressed toward
the goal. Verily when the false self is lost the true self is
discovered.
ii
In character-building it is most necessary that one should
learn how to face the world, the world where one meets with
sorrows and troubles and pleasures and pains. It is very difficult
for one to hide them from the world, and at the same time a
wise person is not meant to show all he feels nor to show at
every moment what he feels. The ordinary person, like a machine,
reacts in answer to every outer influence and inner impulse;
and in this way he very often cannot keep to the law of the
music of life.
Life to a wise person is music; and in that symphony he has
to play a certain part. If one were feeling so low that one's
heart was sounding a lower pitch, and the demand of life at
that moment was that one should voice a higher pitch, then one
would feel that one had failed in that music in which one was
meant to play one's part fittingly. This is the test by which
you can distinguish the old soul and the child's soul. The child
soul will give way to every feeling; the old soul will strike
the higher note in spite of every difficulty.
There are moments when laughter must be kept back, and there
are times when tears must be withheld. And those who have arrived
at the stage where they can act efficiently the part that they
are meant to act in this life's drama, have even power over
the expression of their face; they can even turn their tears
into smiles, or their smiles into tears. One may ask, is it
not hypocrisy not to be natural? But he who has control over
his nature is more natural; he is not only natural, he is the
master of nature, while the one who lacks power over nature,
in spite of his naturalness, is weak.
Also, it must be understood that real civilization means
the art of life. What is that art? It is knowing the music of
life. Once a soul has awakened to the continual music of life,
that soul will consider it as his responsibility, as his duty,
to play his part in outer life, even if it be contrary to his
inner condition for the moment. One must know at every moment
in one's daily life: what does life demand of me, what does
it ask of me, and how shall I answer the demand of my life?
This requires one to be awakened fully to life's conditions.
One must have insight into human nature, and one must be able
to know one's own condition fully. If one says, 'I am as I am;
if I am sad, I am sad; if I am glad, I am glad,' that will not
do. Even the earth will not bear the person who will not answer
life's demands. The sky will not tolerate that person, and the
sphere will not accommodate him who is not ready to give what
life demands of him. If this is true, then it is best when it
is easily done and willingly done.
In the orchestra there is a conductor and there are many
who play the music; and every player of an instrument has to
fulfill his part in the performance. If he does not do it rightly,
it is his fault. The conductor will not listen if he says he
did not do it properly because he was sad or because he was
too glad. The conductor of the orchestra is not concerned with
his sadness or his gladness. He is concerned with the part that
the particular musician must play in the whole symphony. This
is the nature of our lives. The further we advance in our part
in this orchestra, the more efficiently we perform our part
in life's symphony. In order to be able to have this control
over oneself, what is necessary? We must have control over our
inner self, because every outward manifestation is nothing but
a reaction of the inner condition. Therefore the first control
that one has to gain is over one's own self, one's inner self,
which is done by strengthening the will, and also by understanding
life better.
iii
In everyday life it is most necessary to have control over
speech and action, for one may automatically give way to a word,
prompted by an inner impulse; afterwards one finds that one
should not have said it, or perhaps one should have said it
differently. It is the same with action. One feels, 'I should
not have done so', after having done something; or one thinks,
'I should have done differently'; but once it is done it is
too late to do it otherwise. In human nature there is an inner
urge to express oneself; and that urge pushes a word out of
one, so to speak, before one has really thought of it; and all
this shows lack of control over oneself.
It is also a sign of nervousness. Very often a person tries
to answer somebody who has not yet finished speaking; before
a sentence is completed the answer is given. Such an answer
given to an incomplete idea is often wrong. What generally happens
in such cases is that one takes all that comes from outside
in life too much to heart, and allows these outer things and
influences to penetrate one more deeply than they should. In
this way one becomes sensitive, and out of this arises nervousness.
In order to practice self-control in all one does in everyday
life, the best thing is to develop in one's nature a certain
amount of indifference. Every word that is said to one need
not be taken to be so important that it upsets one's whole being,
disturbs one's balance, and robs one of one's will power. There
are things that matter; but there are many things in one's everyday
life which do not matter much, and one is often apt to put undue
stress upon them.
Independence is achieved by indifference. It does not mean
that one should take no heed of what anyone does or says; it
only means one should discriminate between important and unimportant
things of everyday life; that every necessary and unnecessary
thing should not demand so much of one's attention, thought,
and feeling. Political economy has become a subject of education,
but spiritual economy is the main thing in religion. All one
says and does and all that one thinks and feels puts a certain
strain upon one's spirit. It is wise to avoid every risk of
losing one's equilibrium. One must stand peacefully but firmly
before all influences that disturb one's life. The natural inclination
is to answer in defense to every offense that comes from outside,
but in that way one loses one's equilibrium. Self-control, therefore,
is the key to all success and happiness.
Besides, there are many who feel urged and obliged to say
or do something because it is asked of them, and in this way
they get weaker and weaker. There are others who roughly fight
against it; and in this way both are in error. He who is able
to keep his equilibrium without being annoyed, without being
troubled about it, gains that mastery which is needed in the
evolution of life. No principle must be blindly followed. Spiritual
economy is not always a virtue, if it disturbs harmony, if it
in any way keeps one from progress, or if it places one in a
worse condition. However, it is most necessary to know the science
of spiritual economy; how to guard against all influences in
our everyday life which come to disturb our tranquility and
the peace of our soul.
iv
A very important thing in character-building is to become
conscious of one's relationship, obligation, and duty to each
person in the world, and not to mix that link and connection
which is established between oneself and another with a third
person. One must consider that everything that is entrusted
to one by any person in life is one's trust, and one must know
that to prove true to the confidence of any person in the world
is one's sacred obligation. In this manner a harmonious connection
is established with everyone; and it is this harmony which attunes
the soul to the infinite.
It requires a great study of human nature, together with
tact, to keep on harmonious terms with everyone in life. If
one has an admiration for someone, or a grudge against someone,
it is better to express it directly instead of mixing it up
with many connections and relationships in the world. Friends
apart, even in an acquaintanceship such consideration is necessary,
to guard carefully that thin thread that connects two souls
in whatever relation or capacity.
Dharma in the language of the Hindus means religion, but
the literal meaning of this word is duty. It suggests that one's
relation to every person in the world is one's religion; and
the more conscientiously one follows it, the more keen one proves
in following one's religion. To keep the secret of our friend,
our acquaintance, even of someone with whom for a time one has
been vexed, is the most sacred obligation. The one who thus
realizes his religion would never consider it right to tell
another of any harm or hurt he has received from his friend.
It is in this way that self-denial is learned; not always
by fasting and retiring into the wilderness. A man conscientious
in his duty and in his obligations to his friends is more pious
than someone sitting in solitude. The one in solitude does not
serve God, he only helps himself by enjoying the pleasure of
solitude; but the one who proves trustworthy to every soul he
meets, and considers his relationships and connections, small
or great, as something sacred, certainly observes the spiritual
law of that religion which is the religion of all religions.
Faults? Everyone has faults. Oneself, one's friend, and one's
enemy are all subject to faults. The one who wishes that his
own faults should not be disclosed must necessarily consider
the same for the others he meets. The one who knows what the
relation of friendship is between one soul and another, the
tenderness of that connection, its delicacy, its beauty, and
its sacredness, that one can enjoy life in its fullness, for
he is living; and in this manner he must some day communicate
with God. For it is the same bridge that connects two souls
in the world, which, once built, becomes the path to God. There
is no greater virtue in this world than proving kind and trustworthy
to one's friend, worthy of his confidence. The difference between
the old soul and the young soul is to be found in this particular
principle. The young soul only knows himself and what he wants,
absorbed in his own pleasures and displeasures and obsessed
by his ever-changing moods. The old soul regards his relation
to every soul, he keenly observes his obligation toward everyone
he knows in the world. He covers his wounds, if he happens to
have any, from the sight of others, and endures all things in
order to fulfill his duty to the best of his ability toward
everyone in the world.
v
Subtlety of nature is the sign of the intelligent. If a person
takes the right direction he does good with this wealth of intelligence,
but a person who is going in a wrong direction may abuse this
great faculty. When someone who is subtle by nature is compared
with the personality which is devoid of it, it is like the river
and the mountain. The subtle personality is as pliable as running
water, everything that comes before that personality is reflected
in it as clearly as the image in the pure water. The rocklike
personality, without subtlety, is like a mountain, it reflects
nothing. Many admire plain speaking, but the reason is they
lack understanding of fine subtlety. Can all things be put into
words? Is there not anything more fine, more subtle than spoken
words? The person who can read between the lines makes a book
out of one letter. Subtlety of perception and subtlety of expression
are the signs of the wise. Wise and foolish are distinguished
by fineness on the part of the one and rigidness on the part
of the other. A person devoid of subtlety wants truth to be
turned into a stone; but the subtle one will turn even a stone
into truth.
In order to acquire spiritual knowledge, receive inspiration,
prepare one's heart for inner revelation, one must try to make
one's mentality pliable like water rather than like a rock;
for the further along the path of life's mystery a person will
journey, the more subtle he will have to become in order to
perceive and to express the mystery of life. God is a mystery,
His knowledge is a mystery, life is a mystery, human nature
is a mystery; in short, the depth of all knowledge is a mystery,
even science or art.
All that is more mysterious is more deep. What all the prophets
and masters have done in all ages is to express that mystery
in words, in deeds, in thoughts, in feelings; but most of the
mystery is expressed by them in silence. For then the mystery
is in its place. To bring the mystery down to earth is like
pulling down a king on to the ground from his throne; but allowing
the mystery to remain in its own place, in the silent spheres,
is like giving homage to the King to whom all homage is due.
Life's mysteries apart, in little things of everyday life
the fewer words used, the more profitable it is. Do you think
more words explain more? No, not at all. It is only nervousness
on the part of those who wish to say a hundred words to explain
a thing which can quite well be explained in two words; and
on the part of the listener it is lack of intelligence when
he wants a hundred words in order to understand something which
can just as well be explained in one word. Many think that more
words explain things better; but they do not know that mostly
as many words as are spoken, so many veils are wrapped around
the idea. In the end you go out by the same door through which
you entered.
Respect, consideration, reverence, kindness, compassion and
sympathy, forgiveness and gratefulness, all these virtues can
be best adorned by subtlety of expression. One need not dance
in thanksgiving; one word of thanks is quite sufficient. One
need not cry out loudly, 'I sympathize with you, my dear friend!'
One need not play drums and say, 'I have forgiven somebody!'
Such things are fine, subtle; they are to be felt; no noise
can express them. Noise only spoils their beauty and takes from
their value. In spiritual ideals and thoughts subtlety is more
needed than anything else. If a spiritual person were to bring
his realizations into the market-place, and dispute with everyone
that came along about his beliefs and disbeliefs, where would
he end?
What makes a spiritual person harmonize with all people in
the world? The key to the art of conciliation which a spiritual
person possesses is subtlety both in perception and expression.
Is it lack of frankness, is it hypocrisy to be subtle? Not in
the least. There are many people who are outspoken, always ready
to tell the truth in a way which is like hitting another person
on the head, and who proudly support their frankness by saying,
'I do not mind if it makes anybody sorry or angry, I only tell
the truth.' If the truth is as hard as a hammer may truth never
be spoken, may no one in the world follow such a truth!
Then where is that truth which is peace-giving, which is
healing, which is comforting to every heart and soul, that truth
which uplifts the soul, which is creative of harmony and beauty,
where is that truth born? That truth is born in subtlety of
intelligence in thought, speech, and action, of fineness which
brings pleasure, comfort, beauty, harmony, and peace.
vi
There are two attitudes which divide people into two sections.
The one is an ever-complaining attitude, and the other is an
ever-smiling attitude. Life is the same; call it good call it
bad, call it right, call it wrong; it is what it is, it cannot
be otherwise. A person complains in order to get the sympathy
of others and to show them his good points, sometimes in order
to show himself as more just, more intelligent, and also in
the right. He complains about everything, about friends and
about foes, about those he loves, and much more about those
he hates. He complains from morning till evening, and there
is never an end to his complaint. It can increase to such an
extent that the weather is not good and the air is not good
and the atmosphere is not good; he is against both earth and
sky, and everything everybody does is wrong; until it reaches
the stage where that man begins to dislike his own works; and
it culminates when he dislikes himself. In this way he grows
to be against others, against conditions, and in the end against
himself.
Do not imagine that this is a character rarely to be found
in the world. It is a character you frequently meet with, and
certainly the one who has this attitude is his own worst enemy.
The person with a right attitude of mind tries to make even
wrong right, but the one with a wrong attitude of mind will
turn even right into wrong. Besides, magnetism is the need of
every soul; the lack of it makes life burdensome. The tendency
of seeing wrong in everything robs one to a great extent of
that magnetism which is needed very much in life. For the nature
of life is such that naturally the multitude only accepts those
who come to it with the power of magnetism, and casts out everyone
else. In other words, the world is a place where you cannot
enter without a pass of admission, and that pass of admission
is magnetism; the one who does not possess it will be refused
everywhere.
Besides, you will find many who are always complaining about
their health. There may be good reason, but sometimes there
may be very little reason, too little indeed to speak of. And
when once a person has become accustomed to answer despondently
when sympathetically asked, 'How are you?' he certainly waters
the plant of illness in himself by this complaining tendency.
Our life of limitation in the world, and the nature of this
world's comforts and pleasures which are so changeable and unreliable,
and the falseness that one finds in everything everywhere, if
one complained about it, a whole lifetime would be too short
to complain about it fully; every moment of our life would become
filled with complaints. But the way out is to look at the cheerful
side of it, the bright side. Especially those who seek God and
truth, for them there is something else to think about; they
need not think how bad a person is. When they think who is behind
this person, who is in his heart, then they will look at life
with hope. When we see things which are wrong, if we only give
thought to this: that behind all workings there is God, who
is just and perfect, then we will certainly become hopeful.
The attitude of looking at everything with a smile is the
sign of the saintly soul. A smile given to a friend, a smile
given even to an enemy will win him over in the end; for this
is the key to the heart of man. As the sunshine from without
lights the whole world, so the sunshine from within, if it were
raised up, would illuminate the whole life, in spite of all
the seeming wrongs and in spite of all limitations. God is happiness,
the soul is happiness, the spirit is happiness. There is no
place for sadness in the kingdom of God. That which deprives
man of happiness deprives him of God and of truth.
One can begin to learn to smile by appreciating every little
good thing that comes in one's way through life, and by overlooking
every bad thing that one does not like to see. Be not troubled
too much about unnecessary things in life which give nothing
but displeasure. But looking at life with a hopeful attitude
of mind, with an optimistic view, it is this which will give
one the power of turning wrong into right, and bringing light
into the place where all is darkness. Cheerfulness is life,
sulkiness is death. Life attracts, death repulses. The sunshine
which comes from the soul, rises through the heart, and manifests
itself in man's smile is indeed the light from the heavens.
In that light many flowers grow and many fruits become ripe.
vii
The best way of working in all ways of life, at home or outside,
is noiseless working, a thing which is so little thought of
by many and which is so necessary in creating order, harmony,
and peace in life. Very often a person does little and speaks
much about it. In doing every little thing he makes a noise,
and thereby very often, instead of finishing something successfully,
he attracts difficulties.
The first thing to be remembered in character-building is
to understand the secret and character of human nature. We must
know that every person in the world has his own object in life,
his own interest and his point of view, and that he is concerned
with himself. His peace is disturbed when you wish to interest
him in your object of interest. If you wish to force upon him
your point of view, however near and dear he may be to you,
he is not pleased with it. Very few consider this; and they
wish to pour out their own troubles and difficulties upon someone
near to them, thinking, 'Everyone has the same interest in my
subject as I myself and everyone has the same point of view
as myself; so everyone will be glad to hear my tale.'
There is a story told that a person began to speak before
a new acquaintance about his ancestors. He continued so long
that the patience of his hearer was thoroughly exhausted. In
the end the acquaintance interrupted the story by asking, 'If
I do not care to know about my own ancestors, what do I care
to know about yours?' There are many who are very keen to let
their neighbors know about every cold and cough they may have;
every little gain or loss, however small, they would be glad
to announce with drums and bugles. This is a childish quality;
this tendency shows a child soul. Sometimes it frightens away
friends and helps the foes. People who work noisily accomplish
little, for they attract by their noise ten more people who
come and interfere and spoil the work which one person could
easily have finished.
Noisiness comes from restlessness, and restlessness is the
sign of Tamas, the destructive rhythm. Those who have
made any success in life, in whatever direction, have done so
by their quiet working. In business, in industry, in art, in
science, in education, in politics, in all directions of life,
a wise worker is the quiet worker. He tells about things when
the time comes, not before. The one who talks about things before
he has accomplished them is like a cook who is announcing dishes
before they are cooked, to the whole neighborhood.
There is a story told in the East of an enthusiastic servant.
The master had a headache, and he told the servant to go and
fetch some medicine from the chemist. The servant thought it
would not be sufficient only to fetch medicine from the chemist;
so he also made an appointment with the doctor, and on his way
home he visited the undertaker. The master asked, 'Why are you
so late?' The servant said, 'Sir, I arranged everything.' Enthusiasm
is a great thing in life. It is creative and it is a key to
success, but too much of it sometimes spoils things. The more
wise a person, the more gentle he is in everything he does.
A gentleman, in the English language, is the quiet man.
There is a fable that a donkey went to a camel and said,
'Uncle, we shall be friends, we shall go grazing together.'
The camel said 'Child, I enjoy my walks alone.' Said the donkey,
'I am most eager to accompany you, uncle.' The good-natured
camel consented to it, and they both went together. Long before
the camel finished grazing the donkey had finished and was eager
to express himself. He said, 'Uncle, I would like to sing, if
you don't mind.' The camel said, 'Do not do such a thing. It
will be a terrible thing for both you and me. I have not yet
finished my dinner.' The donkey had no patience, he could not
control his joy and began to sing. A husbandman, attracted by
his singing, came with a long bamboo. The donkey ran away, and
all the thrashing fell upon the back of the camel. When next
morning the donkey went again to invite Uncle Camel, the camel
said, 'I am too ill, and your way is different and my way is
different. From today we shall part.'
There is such a great difference between the quiet person
and a noisy person. One is like a restless child, the other
like a grown-up person. One constructs, the other destroys.
A quiet way of working must be practiced in everything. By making
too much ado about nothing one creates commotion, disturbance
in the atmosphere; useless activity without any result. One
also finds noise in the tendency to exaggeration, when someone
wants to make a mountain out of a molehill. Modesty, humility,
gentleness, meekness, all such virtues are manifest in the person
who works quietly through life.
viii
There is something which belongs to human nature, and its
origin is in curiosity; curiosity which gives a desire for knowledge.
When the tendency is abused it develops into inquisitiveness.
It is wonderful that the root of all defects is a right tendency,
and it is the abuse of the right tendency which turns it into
a defect. If we considered how little time we have to live on
this earth, we would see that every moment of our life is precious,
and that it should be given to something which is really worthwhile.
When that time is given to inquisitiveness, wanting to know
about the affairs of others, one has wasted that time which
could have been used for a much better purpose. Life has so
many responsibilities and so many duties, and there is so much
that one has to correct in oneself, there is so much that one
has to undo in what one has done, and there is so much to attend
to in one's affairs to make one's life right, that it seems
as if a person were intoxicated who, leaving all his responsibilities
and duties, occupies himself, occupies his mind with inquisitiveness
and engages his ears in it.
Free will is given to attend to one's own duties, to gain
one's own objects, to attend to one's own affairs, and when
that free will is used in trying to find out about others, the
weaknesses of others, the lacks of others, the faults of others,
one certainly abuses free will. Sometimes a person is inquisitive
because of his interest in the lives of others, but very often
a person is inquisitive because it is his illness. He may have
no interest in the matter at all; it is only because he wants
to satisfy himself by hearing and knowing about others. Self-knowledge
is the ideal of the philosophers, not the knowledge of lives
of others.
There are two phases in the development of a man, one phase
when he looks at others, and another phase when he looks at
himself. When the first phase has ended and the next phase begun,
then one starts one's journey to the desired goal. Rumi says,
'Trouble not about others, for there is much for you to think
of in yourself.'
Besides this, it is a sign of great respect to the aged and
to those one wishes to respect, to show no tendency of knowing
more than one is allowed to know. Even in such a close relationship
as parents and children, when they respect the privacy of one
another they certainly show therein a great virtue.
To want to know about another is very often a lack of trust.
One who trusts does not need to unveil, does not need to discover
what is covered. He who wishes to unveil something, wishes to
discover it. If there is anything that should be discovered
first, it is the self. The time that one spends in discovering
others, their lives, their faults, their weaknesses, one could
just as well spend in discovering one's soul. The desire to
know is born in the soul. But man should discern what must be
known, what is worth knowing, There are many things not worth
troubling about. When one devotes one's time and thought to
trying to know what one need not know, one loses that opportunity
which life offers to discover the nature and secret of the soul,
in which lies the fulfillment of the purpose of life.
ix
It must be remembered that one shows lack of nobleness of
character by love of gossiping. It is so natural, and yet it
is a great fault in the character to cherish the tendency to
talk about others. One shows a great weakness when one makes
remarks about someone behind his back. In the first place it
is against what may be called frankness, and also it is judging
another, which is wrong according to the teaching of Christ,
who says, 'Judge not, that ye be not judged'. When one allows
this tendency to remain in one, one develops love of talking
about others. It is a defect which commonly exists, and when
two people meet who have the same tendency, they gossip together.
One helps the other, one encourages the other. And when something
is supported by two people of necessity it becomes a virtue,
if only for the time being.
How often man forgets that although he is talking about someone
in his absence, yet it is spoken in the presence of God. God
hears all things and knows all things. The Creator knows about
His creatures, about their virtues and faults. God is displeased
by hearing about the fault of His creature, as an artist would
be displeased on hearing bad remarks made by anyone on his art.
Even though he acknowledged the defect of his art, he would
still prefer finding it himself, and not anyone else. When a
person speaks against someone his words may not reach the other,
but his feelings reach him. If he is sensitive he knows of someone
having talked against him; and when he sees the person who has
been talking against him, he reads all he has said in his face,
if he be sensitive and of a keen sight. This world is a house
of mirrors, the reflection of one is mirrored upon another.
In this world where so many things seem hidden, in reality nothing
remains hidden; everything some time or other rises to the surface
and manifests itself to view.
How few in this world know what an effect it makes on one's
personality, talking ill of another; what influence it has on
one's soul! Man's self within is not only like a dome where
everything he says has an echo, but that echo is creative and
productive of what has been said. Every good and bad thing in
one's life one develops by taking interest in it. Every fault
one has, as long as it is small, one does not notice it; and
so one develops the fault till it results in a disappointment.
Life is so precious, and it becomes more and more valuable as
one becomes more prudent; and every moment of life can be used
for a much greater purpose. Life is an opportunity and the more
one realizes this, the more one will make the best of this opportunity
which life offers.
x
The spirit of generosity in nature builds a path to God,
for generosity is outgoing, is spontaneity; its nature is to
make its way toward a wide horizon. Generosity, therefore, may
be called charity of heart. It is not necessary that the spirit
of generosity be shown always by the spending of money; in every
little thing one can show it. Generosity is an attitude a person
shows in every little action that he does for people that he
comes in contact with in his everyday life. One can show generosity
by a smile, by a kind glance, by a warm handshake; by patting
the younger soul on the shoulder as a mark of encouragement,
of showing appreciation, of expressing affection. Generosity
one can show in accommodating one's fellow man, in welcoming
him, in bidding farewell to one's friend. In thought, word,
and deed, in every manner and form one can show that generous
spirit which is the sign of the godly.
The Bible speaks of generosity by the word 'charity', but
if I were to give an interpretation of the word 'generosity'
I would call it nobility. No rank, position, or power can prove
one noble; truly noble is he who is generous of heart. What
is generosity? It is nobility, it is expansion of heart. As
the heart expands, so the horizon becomes wide, and one finds
greater and greater scope in which to build the kingdom of God.
Depression, despair, and all manner of sorrow and sadness
come from lack of generosity. Where does jealousy come from?
Where does envy, aching of the heart come from? It all comes
from lack of generosity. A man may not have one single coin
to his name, and yet he can be generous, he can be noble, if
only he has a large heart of friendly feeling. Life in the world
offers every opportunity to a man, whatever be his position
in life, to show if he has any spirit of generosity.
The changeableness and falsehood of human nature, besides
lack of consideration and thoughtlessness for those whom he
meets through life, and furthermore the selfishness and grabbing
and grafting spirit that disturbs and troubles his soul, all
these create a situation which is itself a test and trial through
which every soul has to pass in the midst of worldly life. And
when through this test and trial a man holds fast to his principle
of charity, and marches along toward his destination, not allowing
the influences that come from the four corners of the world
to keep him back from his journey to the goal, in the end he
becomes the king of life, even if when he reaches his destination
there is not left one single earthly coin to his name.
It is not earthly wealth that makes man rich. Riches come
by discovering that gold-mine which is hidden in the human heart,
out of which comes the spirit of generosity. Someone asked the
Prophet, whose virtue was the greatest, that of the pious soul
who prays continually, or that of the traveler who travels to
make the holy pilgrimage, or of the one who fasts for nights
and days, or of the one who learns the Scripture by heart. 'None
of them', said the Prophet, 'is so great as the soul who shows
through life charity of heart.'
checked 18-Oct-2005